In which 2004 comedy does Barbra Streisand play one of the parents that Ben Stiller's character's future in-laws must meet?

Which U.S. Army soldier told the story of her 2003 capture and rescue in Iraq in the book "I Am a Soldier, Too"? Which 2004 film by Alexander Payne and Jim Taylor follows two friends on a trip through California wine country? Which heavily armed Spider-Man villain did Alfred Molina play in the 2004 film "Spider-Man 2"? Which 2004 epic film, starring Brad Pitt as Achilles, shows the Greeks attacking a fortified city across the Aegean? Which 2004 romantic comedy paired Ben Stiller with Jennifer Aniston? Which actress played Cady Heron, the new girl who takes on "the Plastics," in the 2004 comedy "Mean Girls"? Cynthia Nixon played lawyer Miranda Hobbes on which HBO series that ended in 2004? In which country is the 2004 film set in which Don Cheadle plays hotel manager Paul Rusesabagina, who sheltered refugee…