What term for a shy, modest person also suggests a shriveling purple flower?

What is the mixture of flour and water or milk used to make pancakes called? What name is given to a mixed fruit-juice drink, Hawaiian for example? Which TV series had an episode about a thumbless alien and 1,700 pounds of walnuts? An urban legend says the USS Eldridge vanished in which city's navy yard in a 1943 experiment? Which city names a moist, three-layer "Lord" or "Lady" cake? Which word names both a combination of chemical elements and an enclosure of buildings? Which actress, a mother in real life, plays Grendel's mother in the 2007 film "Beowulf"? Who had a 2002 hit with "A Moment Like This"?